You can feed a full house without making your card issuer fat and happy. The trick isn’t starving the table—it’s starving the waste.

Why the Table Feels Pricier Every Year (Thanksgiving & Christmas)

Let’s say the quiet part out loud: the holiday table costs more than it used to—even when you plan well. Pandemic spikes never fully rolled back; they just slowed down. Meat, eggs, butter, baking basics—everything that turns a meal into a memory—got pricier and mostly stayed there. Turkeys have whipsawed with supply shocks, roasts aren’t cheap, and “just a little extra” at the bakery counter now looks like a line item.

Meanwhile, big-box stores run splashy “holiday baskets under $4 per person.” Great—use the bundle if it fits your plan. But remember: it’s a door-opener. The rest of the cart is where your budget leaks. You’re not doing anything wrong; the baseline moved up. Your plan just has to be smarter.

Frame the Night by Plate, Not by Recipe

Set a per-plate cap before you shop. Example: $12 per adult, $6 per kid. Build the menu backward from that number. If the menu blows the cap, the menu changes—not the cap.

The Inflation-Proof Menu Moves

• One star, many sides. Pick one “hero” protein (turkey, ham, roast) and surround it with low-cost, high-comfort sides.
• Swap list: Fancy cheeses → one marquee cheese + simple board; individual pies → one sheet pie; sparkling waters → tap + citrus.
• Carb ballast: Rolls, roasted potatoes, stuffing. People leave full without a second protein.
• Seasonal produce: Squash, carrots, cabbage, apples. Cheap, beautiful, filling.
• Bake smart: One dessert everyone loves beats three nobody finishes.

Potluck Math That Actually Works

• Host covers mains + two sides.
• Guests bring one side or dessert per household.
• Share a simple signup list (text or sheet) so you don’t end up with six mac-and-cheeses.

One-Trip Shopping Order

1. Dry goods and frozen (early week)
2. Shelf-stable baking, spices, broth
3. Produce 2–3 days out
4. Protein on sale—freeze if you buy early

Leftovers Plan (Built In)

• Cook once, eat three times: dinner → “holiday bowls” → soup.
• Pre-portion freezer containers the night of. Future-you will thank present-you.
• Label dates. If you won’t eat it in four days, freeze it tonight.

Sample $150 Menu for 8 (Yes, Really)

• 1 main: 10–12 lb turkey or 7–8 lb ham
• 4 sides: roasted carrots, green beans, stuffing, mashed potatoes
• 1 salad: hardy greens + apple + vinaigrette
• 1 dessert: sheet-pan apple crisp + vanilla ice cream
• Bread + butter, iced tea/coffee/lemon water

Hosting Scripts (That Lower Costs Without Killing the Vibe)

• “We’re doing potluck—here’s the list. Grab a slot!”
• “Bring a container; we’re sending people home with leftovers.”
• “We’re skipping alcohol this year—mocktails and coffee bar instead.”
• “We’re capping the menu to keep it simple—and affordable.”

Hidden Costs to Plan For (So They Don’t Bite)

• Spices you “always have” but don’t
• Batteries for candles/decor
• Extra ice, foil, storage containers
• Paper goods if you’re short on dishes
• Delivery/rush fees—avoid them with an earlier shop

The Middle-Class Guardrails

• Per-plate budget > “whatever looks good.”
• One hero protein > two “just in case.”
• Potluck math > host absorbs everything.
• Leftovers plan > food waste.
• Cash or debit for groceries > floating a feast at 24% APR.

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Black Friday & Cyber Monday: Deal or Theater?

The Middle-Class Holiday Travel Playbook (Thanksgiving & December)

Bottom Line

The memory isn’t the second protein or the artisanal garnish. It’s the conversation and the calm. Prices went up; that’s reality. Your job is to protect the meaning from the markup. Feed people well, waste little, and keep January quiet. The table looks richer when your balance sheet isn’t blinking red.